2/ Know Who You Are
You must know who you are to proceed in life with grace. This is a simple task and one that can be made more difficult by the advances in society or the strictures one feels from society.
If you are wondering whether you are meant to go in one direction or another, know who you are first. This will make your decision easier.
When you are searching for a partner in life or in work, know who you are first and the picking will be easy.
Life is a series of choices and the mistakes we make from them are ours to suffer. So we might as well make accurate choices instead, right?
Start by knowing yourself: what do you like–what feeds your soul and what adversely affects you? Be honest with yourself and others about who you are and you will receive dividends beyond belief.
For sensitive people this can be especially challenging because there is no exception to the rules about who receives and who gives.
This means that when you sit down to determine how you want to operate in life, you will be inundated with thoughts about what other people want for you and from you.
You must separate this from your won truth about who you are and what you want from life–what you are here to do, to enjoy, and to accomplish.
But your reward if you can do it–and really, you must–is beyond measure. Your happiness will soar. Your filters all be in place for you such that unwelcome experiences and people will automatically be removed, leaving you free to explore and pursue what your soul is here to accomplish.
It is worth your while. I hope that you trust this and do it not only for yourself but for your children.